Dear Jim: Response Back From My Friend Jeff.
Your solution is "just do it". That's a no-answer answer to me, but, I am retired and don't have kids and don't really have to worry about it, except for humanity in general.
I did my share of training ungrateful spoiled adults. I am done with child-adults. Someone else can take over from here, like you suggested, open a hole in the workforce.
"Planners are born not taught." Might take some mass orgies to get enough planners. Then we'll need even more doers.
It took 3 or more generations to destroy the culture of the American Dream. Repairs will happen but ain't gonna happen overnight!
So, I guess you really don't understand that the handouts have to stop or many/most will just stay home. You dodged the point.